Thursday, December 26, 2019
Maximus is 3
Maximus turned three in October and it is just crazy to me. Our little Guam baby is now 3. This little mamas boy truly completes our family and I am so blessed to be his mother. He's grown so much this year. The baby fat had faded into little boy arms and legs. His little pot belly is often sticking out as he chases Theo and Woodrow. Max may be the little brother, but he is not one to be left behind.
Max is super chatty and likes to be right in on the conversations. He talks as much as Theo and can give an attitude just like Woodrow. I am surely in for it with this one. He likes to be very close by to me during the day, but loves his time with Mason.
This year Max took gymnastics lessons in Illinois, and started swimming lessons when we moved to Nebraska. He is really good at listening during his classes and can back float on his own. He's really comfortable in the water, but we want to increase his swimming skills so he is safe. We also did a small in-home music class this Fall and he'll be starting a tumbling class in the new year. (Mama needs this boy to be in an active activity).
Max keeps up with our hiking and activities pretty well. He's definitely motivated if treats are around. His favorite food is "west sticks" (French Toast sticks). He is our breakfast eater and early riser of the bunch...and likes you to be up and at em with him.
With Theo and Woodrow in school full time this year, Max is my companion during the day. We like to go on outings to the zoo, the library, and playgroups. Max enjoys playing with the puzzles at the library and always has to find the two snails in the fishtank before we leave. We spend lots of time at the zoo, especially looking at the elephants and giraffes.
Max likes to read books, snuggle, watch shows, play kitchen, do puzzles, and paint with water. He helps me cook/bake and is likely to dig into a cake or pan of brownies if left unattended.
Our little guy is a whippersnapper, but we just adore him!
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Friday, December 13, 2019
Theodore is 8
(I started this back in October hoping to post before Max's birthday...I'm ridiculous...thanks for loving me anyways).
This years presents were themed around: sports, bison, art, and presidents. After the game ended (with a WIN), we headed to his restaurant of choice for dinner- Buffalo Wild Wings. Theo's favorite food is a good cheeseburger, so no matter where we go that's almost always his pick. We finished off the evening with singing and cake and tucked our big kid into bed.
It is so fun to watch Theo grow. He's all boy these days. I see him stretching to be this big kid, but have reminders that he's still a little tender soul too. He sleeps with his special teddy bear Robert, he often has SEVERAL stuffed animals in his bed, his Bison blanket, and many other covers. Theo is our resident hoarder and everything is super special to him...so his room tends to be a hot mess, with all surfaces covered.
He has gotten into collecting Teeny Mates (small figures of NFL and MLB players), he started collecting baseball cards, has cards from friends, and little legos that are frequently scattered across the floor, and there are always piles of books in his bed. I fear that I never give Theo the 1:1 time that he needs. I think he'd work on his detailed art more or play games more if there weren't some little brothers always running around.
It's a joy to watch him grow and express himself. He's a huge helper around the house most of the time and is a great big brother. He's kind and encouraging to Max (most of the time) and has enjoyed Woodrow as a sports playing companion (most of the time). Theo's idea of relaxing, which is rare, is reading. I often catch him with the light on after bedtime.
He's a Bear in Cub Scouts this year, which means he gets to work on some cool awards. At summer camp he got to shoot a BB gun and do archery, he earned a really special Nova and Supernova STEM award at the end of last year, and he recently earned his whittling chip which allows him to carry a pocket knife with him to Scout events. He's also been logging all the hikes we take him on and he got a hiking stick with some emblems to add.
In the Fall he was more into baseball and eventually became a football fan, so he didn't play any sports this Fall. We're thinking he may give baseball a try in the Spring. He did swimming lessons all last year and we started up with Goldfish Swim School here and really like their program. He's eager to "graduate", but I'd like to see him stick with it a bit longer.
I'm really proud of Theodore and what an amazing kid he is. I'm so blessed to be his mom.
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Omaha Moms Blog Posts
It's embarrassing how behind I am on updating the family blog. I think about it frequently, and find myself diving into books or TV in my quieter time. I am really enjoying writing my articles for the Omaha Moms Blog. Each month a calendar is put out by our editor with suggested topics. We write for two months in advance, so this December we are writing our February articles. I like that there are different options provided, and we're also allowed to suggest our own topics. I usually try to do a mixture.
In November I wrote an article for National Sesame Street Day on November 10th.
I also did a quick guide to restaurants that were open on Thanksgiving this year.
I was pretty happy to write my January post because I did a guide to Breakfast spots in Omaha. We can't show favoritism to businesses unless they are a sponsor, which is why I have ended up doing several "guides". The family enjoyed doing the research for that article. It's not out yet, but we enjoyed some tasty food! I'm always up for an excuse to eat French Toast. Yum!
I've also had a few chances to do an Instagram Takeover on their page, which I enjoy doing. The first one was more of a "Day in the Life" with some mom hacks thrown in, and my second one focused on Air Force life. I'll be doing one later this month the week of Hanukkah/Christmas to discuss the holidays and some family traditions.
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Sunday, October 20, 2019
Omaha Moms Blog October Post
My visions for this post didn't quite come to fruition based on my waiting until the last minute to get it written, but the books were good.
Check it Out:
Cozy up to a Good Book This Fall: Reviews from Various Readers
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Sunday, October 13, 2019
Tired
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Friday, August 23, 2019
It's hard to say no
Generally I find myself as a people pleaser, or at least I don’t like
conflict, to the point where I will just avoid conversations. However the
conversations in my head or the conversations that get played out in
front of Mason are quite hyped up...not that they go anywhere.
Recently my supervisor for my online teaching job asked me if I would be interested in
possibly working some more hours and increasing my position. So after a
few conversations I said sure, I'd be interested in more information. It
turned out she wanted me to apply for a full-time, high school, social
studies position for a private school under the same companies umbrella. I went back-and-forth
about it but ultimately decided to apply and see where the process would
take me.
When I did the phone interview this week I learned more about the
program and what the job would entail. Essentially 20 hours a week I
would be a grader for 450 to 500 students, the other 20 hours a week
would be divided into five, 4 hour shifts where I would need to be available
by phone to answer student questions about assignments or topics related
to their courses.
I deliberated quite a bit and talk things out with Mason and a few
friends I ultimately decided that right now this would not be the best
commitment for me, and for our family. A few of the deciding factors were
that it was for social studies and while I am qualified in that area it
is not my stronger subject area. Having to be available 20 hours a
week, in specific time slots, to answer the phones would be a little bit
challenging with Max at home and I was not willing to put him in
childcare. Mason will potentially be traveling a lot in the next year and a full time position would be challenging for me while juggling him being gone, plus we hope to travel with him at least once or twice which would also create some obstacles.
I am really grateful that Mason's job allows me to be home with the kids. While some days are really exhausting and tiring I enjoy the
flexibility that I currently have with my current positon and the ability to be home.
Perhaps in the future that type of position would work out when Max is
in preschool or full-time school or perhaps a full-time position in the
current section I’m already working in would be possible, but I decided
to decline the position. This was really hard for me because I wanted to say
yes. I wanted to make it work. I wanted to be a financial contributor to my family. But, Mason and I both know this would mean long evening hours for me, time away from Max, and things would slack in other areas. Right now, those aren't areas I want to slack in. We've worked really hard to get where we are and we're in a great spot with our kiddos and marriage, and this isn't a time when I want to strain that, but it was hard to say no thanks.
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Tuesday, August 20, 2019
Woodrow is 6!
Just a few days before his birthday he lost his first baby tooth. So exciting! Woodrow is strong. He completed a Spartan Race this past year where he was racing thru mud and he learned to ride his two-wheel bicycle this past summer. He's really taken off and has done several mile bike rides with his new Cub Scout Troop here in Nebraska. Woodrow's becoming a more confident swimmer, and does well in his swimming lessons. He took a short baseball camp this summer, and thinks he may try a team in the Spring.
Kindergarten was an awesome year for Woodrow. He excels at math and is reading really well, although he's rather listen to a story than read one. He really came out of his shy shell too. We moved this summer and he's adjusted to a new place and people without any tantrums or push-back. He's starting 1st grade, all day...it's definitely an adjustment for our night owl, but he's been doing great.
Woodrow is still into Star Wars, especially the lego minifigures. He keeps quite a collection in his room of minifigures, and likes to stay up late playing with them. We frequently hear him playing alone "pew pewing" the guns and ships. It's adorable. Woodrow got his own room in our new house and it's been nice for him to have some special space, and be able to stay awake/sleep later than his brothers.
While Woodrow's tantrums are MUCH LESS than they used to be, he still likes to push back often. He has gotten better at managing his anger and verbalizing what's bothering him, but with the exhausting back-to-school schedule there have been some ROUGH evenings/afternoons.
Woodrow is an outstanding brother. He likes playing big kid games with Theo (baseball, "meetings", legos), but he's also sweet to Max too. He likes to cook in the kitchen with me, and hit the gym with Mason. His favorite foods (re stubborn eater) are pizza, hot dogs, pesto, McDonalds, Subway, and PB sandwiches.
We're so proud of Woodrow. He wears.us.down. But man, this kid is going places. Six. It's so big. I can not believe it. We love him so super much.
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Sunday, August 18, 2019
Omaha City Mom's Blog 2
Check out my August article with the Omaha City Mom's Blog. This month I was writing about ways to get your kiddos moving before and after school as part of or back to school month themed posts.
Shake Your Groove Thang: Getting in Movement Before and After School
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Thursday, July 11, 2019
Omaha Moms Blog
I am super excited for a new opportunity that I have here in Omaha, and that will be writing as a contributor for the Omaha City Moms Blog. I'll likely have around one post a month and I'm happy to have a fun activity for me and a way to meet other local mamas.
Check out my Intro post here: https://omaha.citymomsblog.com/contributor/omaha-moms-blog-introducing-ellen/
Last night I got the opportunity to meet some of the other team members for a volunteer event. We met at The Life House in Omaha, which is a program put together by two sister churches and they offer a food bank and diaper pick-up for qualifying people in their community. We got to meet one of the staff members, hear about the mission, take a tour of the small building, and then we packaged diapers.
In one hour we packaged 4350 diapers, which looked like a lot, and then we realized that according to her recent statistics, that wouldn't even be enough for one day that they were open. They are open 3-4 times a month, and families can come once a month. If they have a WIC or Medicaid card for their child, they are eligible for 60-70 diapers for up to two children under the age of 4. Last year they gave out over 55,000 diapers and they are on track to double that number this year.
It was a great opportunity and I enjoyed meeting more moms and hopefully new friends!
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Monday, July 8, 2019
Goodbye June
| Taking a break on the back deck |
| Borrowing the movers ladder to reach something Max had thrown into the chandelier |
| Finally finishing staining the deck and fence |
I lost track of days, but I think this was also the same time we discovered water in one of the rooms in the basement. It was a storage room and the water appeared to be coming up through cracks in the cement flooring...great.
Tuesday morning, Mason had to get to work so the kitchen was my goal for the majority of the morning. We spent the day before trying to get the boy's rooms all set-up so that they wouldn't be fiddling with boxes and things in their rooms. Woodrow and Max's room were pretty well set, but Theo was missing a few pieces for his bed and a cabinet. This day we spent lots of time unpacking boxes, I felt like I was coordinating all day with people to come pick up the boxes we offered for free, and then we had two different people come check out the floor. Tuesday night, I was toast and melting down even more.
| New-to-him big boy bed (we split the bunk beds) |
It was a ROUGH week.
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Friday, June 28, 2019
Oh give me a home, where the Buffalo Roam...
Mason got some work done at home and worked out while I took the kids on what turned out to be a longer day than expected. We had lots of fun, but I was tired. Ha! When I showed up I didn't realize that I needed a separate pass to enter. The gentleman took my word that we'd bought the membership the day prior and let me enter without showing a receipt or the pass (which we've now received in the mail). I was thankful, although did offer to pay since I messed up.
The entrance area had a few cages with animals to check out, Bison statues, a prairie dog village, and an overlook to the Elk fields. The boys, Maximus especially liked the prairie dog village. They didn't really remember all the dakrats we use to encountered in Minot. At first I was disappointed that we weren't seeing any Elk as we drove through their area, but I had a feeling they'd be clustered together, and we'd see all the other cars stopping once they were spotted. Sure enough, that was exactly the case. The boys were really excited. Woodrow exclaimed, "he'd never seen an elk before"
and liked the really big antlers.
We passed through various areas with deer, pelicans, wetland birds, and more. We stopped midway through the safari to park and get out and walk to some different animal enclosures. The boys were "starving" at this point so I bought them each a bag of chips to tie them over since I wanted to walk some of the trails. They got to see cranes, eagles, a wolf, black bear, and we saw a turtle at frog leg. They also got to see chickens up close and pet some goats. Max was definitely a fan of the goats and was certainly fearless.
After walking around and getting a bit warm, we headed back to the car to check out the grande finale...the bison! Sure enough it was a decent herd gathered together. We looped around two times. There were more people at the park than I'd expected, but it was a Saturday, and like the zoo, I expect the number of locals and tourists are similar in number. There was even one baby bison, so that was a big hit among the three wise men.
I'm glad that we got some exploring in before the movers came. It was a nice break over the weekend to get out and feel like we weren't in the middle of the move. I hadn't been feeling well, so I decided detour to an urgent care on the way home. They didn't find anything suspicious, but gave me a steroid and some anti-nausea medicine. I've been feeling mostly better, but some days are rougher with feelings of lightheadedness and a fuzz in my head. The stress, lack of sleep, eating out, and high temperatures haven't been helping, but I'm hoping that this straightens out soon.
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Wednesday, June 26, 2019
We're going to the Zoo, zoo, zoo...how about you, you, you?
The zoo is huge! I imagine because of its reputation is draws equal tourists and people living in area. We spent our whole first hour just in the jungle building. The facilities were impressive and there were lots of different animals. It seemed like there were a lot of people at the zoo, but it didn’t feel crowded. It was nicer earlier in the day because there was a cloud cover, but it eventually lifted and gave way to sun and heat. After a cooler spring and then bam into summer heat my body doesn't know what to do with itself.
My favorites were the giraffes and elephants, all who were in their inside spaces. The spaces felt spacious and clean. The outdoor elephant enclosure seemed to take up half of the zoo. I think it will be really fun to see them outside one day. There were also a lot of giraffes, including a baby!
We wandered through the newly opened Asian Highlands area, but once Max saw the train rolling through the park, the animals became a secondary interest. He was all about finding the train. We’ve heard it wasn’t worth the expense, but I foresee us taking a ride one day. Two is very fun at times right now. We’re fully into trucks, trains, and fire engines.
We spent about four hours at the zoo and there is certainly much more we didn't even see. I'm glad that we have our pass and can explore anytime and it will be a nice option for Maximus and I during the school year.
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Monday, June 24, 2019
We bought a house!
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Sunday, June 23, 2019
New Surroundings

We ended off the evening taking the kids out to a restaurant. They were excited and even Woodrow, or trickiest eater decided to try wings and decided they’re his favorite now. We also took a walk around the neighborhood where the boys ended up losing their baseball to the street drains, and Maximus found "Santa Trees" (evergreens). I'm a personal fan of all the bunnies we seen in the hood.
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